Leaving the dead connection in `#connections` made `getConnectionStatus` report `connected` and `waitForConnection` hand a closed transport to callers after the breaker had explicitly suspended the server. Mirror `#doReconnect`'s teardown: detach `onClose`, fire-and-forget `transport.close()`, and drop the entry from `#connections` (plus its in-flight slots in `#pendingConnections`/`#pendingToolLoads`). Tools stay registered in `#tools` so the user can recover with `/mcp reconnect`.
Test asserts `getConnectionStatus("crashy") === "disconnected"` after the burst.
Refs #1592